Alpha Rules Newsletter
Hey, guys... I’ve been dating a girl, Kelly, for the past three years. I did everything I could to be the best boyfriend possible. I was totally faithful. Whenever she had a problem, I was there to listen. I stopped hanging out with buddies of mine that she thought were bad influences. (One guy she complained was just too cocky for her taste...)
When she moved to Chicago for work, I even left my job and moved with her. I pretty much rearranged my whole life around hers.
Well, last week she dropped a bomb on me. She told me she was leaving me for another guy. When she told me who it was, I couldn’t believe it. The guy’s name is Steve and he’s an arrogant jerk. He’s also one of the biggest players in town.
I think it’s only a matter of time before he cheats on her and she comes back to me, but in the meantime, I’m confused and miserable.
Is it really true that nice guys finish last?
- Jack, Chicago
CARLOS & DEAN ANSWER:
In our book The Alpha Rules, we discuss the concept of REAL primal attraction…and how most men have NO IDEA of how to truly attract women on a deep, lasting, level.
Jack, it sounds like your girlfriend liked certain things about you. But you didn’t have her LOCKED IN with the powerful type of attraction we’re talking about. She took you for granted, and when a more attractive option came along, she jumped ship.
The good news is that ALL men have the ability to make themselves attractive to women. And it doesn’t have to do with looks or money. It’s about displaying dominant Alpha behavior.
See, women are wired to want to be with Alpha Men. They need the sense of stability, security and strength that an Alpha Man provides. And we’re not talking about physical strength.
As we explain in our book, showing EMOTIONAL strength is far more important, and hugely attractive to women. (In fact, Rule #1 of our 21 Alpha Rules is “Master Your Emotions.”)
Emotional strength is the psychological equivalent of physical strength. It allows a woman to feel safe and secure in the clear boundaries that a man provides for her.
She might SAY that she wants a “nice guy”… the sweet, caring type who brings her flowers, provides a shoulder to cry on, and jumps through any hoop she puts in front of him.
But as you know by now, this is not reality. What she says is not what she really MEANS, primarily because she doesn't like what the truth would sound like if she were to say this emotional reality out loud. It would sound UN-politically correct, and almost - gasp - sexist.
She has an inner need to be with a man who doesn’t take her crap, and who leads instead of always deferring to her decision.
In human relationships, there's a curious need for all of us (even men) to feel the limits of our impact on someone - sometimes referred to as "boundaries."
However, there aren’t a whole lot of Alpha Men capable of providing this to women. So most women wind up dating or marrying a wuss. He could be the sweetest, kindest guy in the world, who brings home the bacon, never looks at another woman, and gives her anything she asks for…
... But if he’s a wuss and can’t stand his ground, his woman is going to secretly resent him for it. She’ll henpeck him and push his buttons to try to force him to show a backbone. This happens to anyone who runs unchecked in their relationship. It's like being mad with power.
When faced with this situation, most guys become ever BIGGER wusses. They’ll bend over backwards to try to please their woman, because they want to avoid arguments. Men, by their nature, like smooth sailing and calm emotional currents.
And this only annoys her even more.
We’ve all seen relationships in which the man is passive, and the woman is constantly nagging and controlling him.
He doesn’t know it, but HIS wuss behavior is what is fueling her anger!
The more he defers to her, the most bitter and hostile she becomes, because he's not living up to his masculine side of the implied relationship contract.
You see, no woman wants to “wear the pants” in a relationship. She wants a man who makes her feel comfortable being the woman. This means he makes the tough decisions. He has a life outside of her, and isn’t always available to her at a moment’s notice.
And when she goes through one of her mood swings, he remains firm and steadfast.
So Jack, from this point forward—whether you wind up reconciling with your ex, or meet someone new—you’re going to have to exhibit a new attitude and set of behaviors.
You CAN be a nice, loyal guy…and you should be. But you’ve got to have a tough Alpha Man foundation that commands respect from every person you meet.
We can show you exactly how to make this transformation. It's a lifestyle that you cannot avoid if you're ever going to live your life to its fullest and achieve all you're capable of.
It's time to give you the same KILLER tools these Alpha Men have had for years to get the Alpha LIFESTYLE that almost every man wants.
HERE'S HOW YOU DO IT:
This is the book hat will outline the PRECISE behaviors of these Alpha Men that you can model and use to make the changes and "be all that you can be."
We call these THE ALPHA RULES.
Here's the important part, so PAY ATTENTION:
What you care about is how these principles are going to point you towards a better LIFESTYLE.
You don't need to know that this thing is almost 300 pages of detailed strategies and techniques...
YOU WANT RESULTS.
And you also need to get a look at all the behaviors that are actually DESTROYING your ability to attract hot women into your life.
We're not going to waste another minute telling you about it all here.
Go get your copy of The Alpha Rules right now.
Carlos & Dean
PS: Really, if you're serious AT ALL about improving the quality of your life - in ALL areas, you owe it to yourself to take a step in the right direction. We teach the methods that honorable men - powerful ALPHA Men use every day to get what they want from life.
No manipulation, head games, or clever routines are necessary.
Now you can get these methods, too.
- Carlos & Dean
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