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How to Break Through Her Ice Shield ...
Carlos & Dean,
I live in Los Angeles, where the women at the clubs are stuck up (unless you happen to be a famous actor, or your band is on MTV). I don’t work in the entertainment business. I’m a regular guy with a regular job.
What’s the best strategy for trying to pick up girl in a scene like this?
Sean, Los Angeles, CA
CARLOS & DEAN:
First of all, Sean, we need to correct your mindset.
You used the words 'stuck up' to describe all the girls in the clubs you go to.
We hear this from guys all the time. A girl blows them off, so they assume she’s 'stuck up.' The guy makes it sound like HE is doing everything right, but SHE has the attitude problem…
Our book The Alpha Rules shows you how to 'get real' with yourself. See, a big part of transforming into an Alpha Man is 'looking in the mirror' and honestly assessing your strengths and weaknesses.
Because here’s the reality:
When a woman blows you off, it’s usually because YOU failed to engage her interest.
It probably means you were sending out the wrong signals. Her “female radar” was picking up on RED FLAGS that turned her off… and you probably had no idea you were doing anything wrong!
Sean, you’re going to need to adhere to The Alpha Rules to establish a confident mindset for approaching and attracting women… including the hot women in the nightclubs who’ve got their “bitch shields” turned up to full power.
You have to realize that beautiful women are never negatively impacted by this behavior, so she has no incentive to discontinue it.
These shields serve a purpose: Get rid of all the low-self-confidence chumps as quickly as possible. Because - to her - it feels like an endless mambo line of dorks and drips.
For now, here’s a concept to get you started. In The Alpha Rules e-book, one of the 21 principles is “Be Unique in Your Approach, Style and Actions.”
This one Rule covers a lot of ground. Being Original and Unique is a huge part of being an Alpha Man that women respond to. And this extends to the way you approach women and start conversations.
You’ve got to keep in mind that ANY attractive woman has multiple men approaching her on a daily basis and trying to throw game at her.
If she’s out at a club, the numbers can get ridiculous. She could easily get approached a dozen times a night… and send a dozen guys scurrying back to their geek squads with their tails between their legs.
Women have developed a defense mechanisms - and a shortcut - to cope with the constant parade of men—many of them boring, over-eager or just plain obnoxious—who come at them.
They’ve got their rejection lines ready to go, the MOMENT they detect that the guy lacks confidence and charisma.
HIM: Hey, what’s your name?
HIM: Can I buy you a drink?
Or, the timeless classic…
HIM: Do you come here often?
Look, when you use a cliché opener, you’re inviting a cliché rejection. This is why it’s critical for you to come at her with original “hooks” to capture her attention, and then drop “anchors” to keep her interested and wanting to know more about you.
You only need her to give you the opportunity to engage her. Once she lowers her defenses, even for thirty seconds, that’s when you can build a connection with her and guide it towards your desired outcome.
This entire step-by-process is explained in our book The Alpha Rules. We’ll arm you with an array of different openers and conversational tactics that will get you in the door. Then, we’ll show you how to CONTROL the flow and the direction of the conversation…so that SHE feels the need to impress YOU, instead of the other way around.
It’s actually a lot of fun, once you learn what women want and get the hang of this. There’s no reason for you to spend another night WANTING to approach the hotties, but feeling paralyzed because you fear the conversation might “run out of gas.”
We're not going to waste another minute telling you about it all here.
Go discover the beauty of this system right now...
Go get your copy of The Alpha Rules.
- Carlos & Dean
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