Alpha Rules Newsletter
Handling Phone Game
Carlos & Dean,
I was at the dog park yesterday (great place to meet chicks, by the way) and I met this cutie. We chatted and wound up exchanging phone numbers.
How long should I wait until I call her? I don’t want to seem too eager, but I also don’t want her to forget who I am.
Adam, Santa Monica, CA
CARLOS & DEAN ANSWER:
We hear this question all the time. A guy meets a girl, he gets her number, and then he agonizes over whether he should call her the following day, or the day after, or maybe he should REALLY play it cool and wait two weeks… yadda yadda.
Hey, come on. We've all seen "Swingers," right?
It’s a whole lot of angst over NOTHING. The idea that you need to wait a certain period of time before calling a girl is a myth.
Here’s the key to this. If you apply the techniques we explain in our book The Alpha Rules, you’re going to lay the proper GROUNDWORK with her during that first conversation.
This ensures that when you do call her, whether it’s a few hours or a few days later, she’s going to immediately remember you and be looking forward to chatting with you—because you presented yourself as a fun, original and confident guy.
This is the most important rule to remember, because it cuts straight to the root of all issues with getting women to answer your callback, and follow through on the next date.
(If it was simply a matter of getting a phone number, every guy out there could work that. But it's really getting her to SHOW UP that separates the Alpha Men from the boys.)
There isn’t any “time frame” you need to follow. But there are some Alpha Rules to setting up this first phone call to improve your chances of a successful outcome:
A final note: whenever you talk on the phone to a girl you’re just getting to know, whether she calls you or you call her, you want to keep it brief: under 5 minutes. Any longer makes her anxious about keeping up the small talk.
It’s important that you maintain a sense of mystery. Don’t show all your cards. If she wants to get to know you better, that needs to be done in person—not over the phone. That's the best method.
The ALPHA MAN method.
As we all know, women LOVE to chat on the phone. Don’t take the bait and get roped into a one-hour conversation where you’re telling each other your life stories. You’re a busy guy. An Alpha Man on the move.
The purpose of the phone call is only to lock down the next time you’re going to see her in person. Once you’ve made plans, it’s time for you to go. “I’ve got some business to handle now, Cindy, but I’ll see you on Friday night.”
You should never let HER be the one to end the phone call because that is an indicator that:
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- Carlos & Dean
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